The
Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage has generated passionate responses
from millions of Americans, ranging from exuberance to rage and from exaltation
to panic. There is much to be said about the ruling, and there are many
possible directions the conversation could and should take. What I hope to
share is not intended to invalidate or belittle the many contributions that
have already been put forth. I do, however, feel that this is an important
contribution to the dialogue, and that the perspective I am sharing is
crucially important for the Church. This is not a political commentary
concerning the Constitutionality of the ruling, or a denunciation of the
society in which we live. It is rather a call to the Church, delivering a
message that I believe is from the heart of God.
One of the most common themes I witnessed on social media
was the belief that this ruling would bring God’s severe judgment upon America.
While I am not debating that the embracing of sin brings God’s judgment upon
individuals and nations, I feel that the aforementioned declarations are in
need of refinement. Many of the voices
warning of coming judgment, due to the ruling, pointed to Romans chapter 1 to
support their claims. A closer look at Romans 1, however, reveals something
different than the message many were sharing. Rather than saying that God’s
judgment came because of the sin of homosexuality, it actually says that God’s
giving men over to their lusts, and specifically to homosexuality, was itself
part of the judgment of God. Look briefly at Romans 1:25-27:
25 They exchanged
the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather
than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
26 Because of
this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural
sexual relations for unnatural ones. 27 In the same way the men also abandoned
natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men
committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due
penalty for their error. (NIV)
Rather than this ruling
being the act that results in God’s rightful judgment on America, I believe
that we see in Romans a more likely revelation that we are already under
judgment, and God is simply giving us over to our own lusts and darkness. How
can one look objectively at our society, and even at many of our churches, and
not see how the description is fitting, that “They exchanged the truth about
God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the
Creator”? Judgment is not coming. We, as a nation, are already under judgment.
It is important to remember two things at this point.
First, though we are under judgment, God’s long-suffering grace is still
sheltering us from the fullness of His rightful wrath for the moment. Second,
God’s righteous judgments are meant as correcting rebukes that lead us to
repentance. There is yet hope, and this hope lies at the heart of the message
that I feel God has for His Church. If we exert all our energy castigating
sinners and society, we will completely miss the true heart of God and His
intent in this moment. God’s word to His Church, in this season, is found in 1
Peter 4:17, “For it is time for judgment to begin with God’s household; and if
it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the
gospel of God?” (NIV). The Apostle Paul wrote in 1 Corinthian 5:12 and 13,
“What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to
judge those inside? God will judge those outside. Expel the wicked person from
among you.” (NIV). Likewise we see in 2 Chronicles 7:14, “If my people, who are
called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn
from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their
sin and will heal their land” (NIV). We cannot expect those who have not been
saved and liberated from sin, by the atoning work of Christ’s salvation, to
live in freedom from sin or to even want to do so. It is not our place to sit
in judgment upon the world, it is our place to sit in judgment upon the Church
and to be a light to the world. This does not mean we are not to declare the
truth of God’s law or that we are to cease to expose and warn of the dangers
and sinfulness of sin. Nor does it mean that we are not to use wise discernment
to know the true from the false, and to look to the fruits of men’s lives as
evidence of their salvation. Those are tasks to which our Lord commands us.
Removing our voice and witness from the conversation would be a grave error and
a sinful desertion of those whom are perishing in their sin. We should heed the
warning God gave to Ezekiel:
18 When I say to a
wicked person, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn them or speak out to
dissuade them from their evil ways in order to save their life, that wicked
person will die for their sin, and I will hold you accountable for their blood.
19 But if you do warn the wicked person and they do not turn from their
wickedness or from their evil ways, they will die for their sin; but you will
have saved yourself. (Ezekiel 3:18-19 NIV)
It does mean, however, that rather than placing ourselves
upon a pedestal and condemning the world while ignoring our own sin, we need to
look closely at ourselves, repent when we need to, and dedicate ourselves to a
lifestyle of genuine Christian character. As I said, it is unfair to expect
those in bondage to sin to live up to God’s holy standard—it is, in fact, impossible
for them to do so. Rather, our duty is to hold those within the Church, who
have been saved and set free by the atoning work of Christ, accountable to walk
according to those standards and to strive to uphold them ourselves. The most
reprehensible part of the Church condemning the world for living like the world
is that the Church itself is so often indistinguishable from the world. In
terms Jesus once used, the salt of the earth has lost its saltiness and we have
hidden our light under a bushel. It is time, now, for judgment to begin in the
house of God. It is time for His people, who are called by His name, to humble
ourselves, pray, seek His face, turn from our wicked ways that He might hear
from Heaven and heal our land. God is calling us to be purified in both our
theology—thinking about God—and our spiritual practice—right living before God.
We need to allow God to purify us from any resemblance to the conditions found
in Romans 1:25, “They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped
and served created things rather than the Creator” (NIV).
It
is imperative that we do not exchange the truth about God for a lie. This
requires believers to search the Scripture and draw closer to God, so that we
might see Him as He truly is, as opposed to the image we want Him to be. Romans
1 makes reference to idolatry in this context. Idolatry is not just worshipping
a false god or desiring something more than God. Idolatry is also worshipping
an image of God that is a false representation. When Moses was on Mt. Sinai and
the Israelites worshipped the golden calf, they were not claiming to worship
another god. Aaron said, “This is the God which led us out of Egypt.” The
Israelites did not try to find another god, they tried to create their own
image of the God who saved them, but it was not His true image. We need to
examine our beliefs about God to determine whether they fit within His
self-revelation given to us, or if we have simply tried to mold Him into an
image we are more comfortable with. We also must study His word to learn His
ways and what He expects from us. As Isaiah said, “Woe to those who call evil
good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put
bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter” (Isaiah 5:20 NIV). God is calling us to
renew our minds (Romans 12:2) and to set our hearts upon Him and His ways.
The
second part of the condition, from Romans 1, was worshipping and serving
created things rather than the creator. This form of idolatry is evinced when
we place our own desires above His desires in the way we live our lives. It is
practiced when we choose to be the lords of our own lives rather than
submitting our lives wholly to His lordship, and when we allow any earthly
thing or person to be more important to us than our love of and obedience to
God. It is also subtly evident in popular theology that focuses primarily upon
the self rather than God, and primarily upon receiving blessing rather than
upon serving, adoring, and exalting the One who blesses. Rather than creating
sacrificial servants, it fosters a desire to receive and multiply personal
gain. It removes, or ignores, the emphasis of discipleship that is the
irreplaceable core of Christianity. Dealing with this condition entails the
need to live righteously, serving the Creator rather than our own whims.
Allow me to give some application in light of the Supreme
Court decision on same-sex marriage. As important as it is to not compromise
the truth or celebrate sin—as many churches are doing by abandoning God’s
teachings on homosexuality—it is even more important for us to set the standard
by modeling successful marriages and relationships. The hard truth is that
same-sex marriage is not responsible for destroying the sanctity of marriage;
that sanctity is already broken. Same-sex marriage may be taking our nation
even further down the path of violating its sanctity, but the sanctity of
marriage has been crumbling for decades. The sins of divorce, adultery,
pre-marital sex, and having children out of wed-lock long ago shattered any
illusion of sanctity in modern marriage, and a large portion of those of us in
the Church are every bit as guilty as the world. If we are to regain any
credibility in the discussion on marriage, we need to clean our own house
first. We have often exerted enormous amounts of energy verbally testifying,
when what we are ultimately called to do is to be a living testimony. Our lives
and our relationships should demonstrate the holiness, happiness, goodness,
peace, love, and righteousness of God’s kingdom. Christians are called to be a
kingdom of priests, called out of the world to stand apart and be a beacon in
the darkness. As my friend Jeff Boyer added to these thoughts, “A beacon draws
to it those who are lost in darkness. There must be something attractive about
the beacon, something worth coming to. If the beacon is no different than the
darkness, it is no beacon at all. Why would those in darkness be drawn to
something that is no different than where they are already?”
It is time for judgment to begin with God’s household.
True revival is not God pouring out His spirit to bring sinners into the
Church. It is the work of His spirit reawakening the Church and bringing it
back to life, resulting in a vibrant living faith that then draws in the lost.
The first step to revival as described in 2 Chronicles 7 is for His people to
humble themselves. We do this by acknowledging when we are in a backslidden
state and falling upon His transforming mercy. Before we can influence or
change society we must first be changed ourselves.
One final word, which needs to be added, is that the
heart of our message must always be love. Those who are entangled in sin may
not always be able to see or acknowledge the love we have for them when we must
speak a hard truth that they despise, but our hearts must be pure before God
and motivated by genuine compassion. Love is concerned with the well-being of
the one loved. We take our stand, not because we are angry at sinners, but
because we want for them to be free and come to know the love of God that saved
us when we ourselves were sinners. We know the painful consequences that come
as a result of sin and we long to help them avoid that pain. Love does not give
false hope or remain silent when we see our loved ones in danger. It is
unwavering in its message concerning sin and the means of salvation. Yet, we
must also remain humble in the knowledge that it is only by God’s grace that we
are not in bondage to the same sin. Because we have discernment, we confront
sin and share God’s revealed standards of divine judgment, as well as the
promise of His atoning gift, that all might be saved. We do not, however,
demean those in sin, or try to condemn them to Hell without hope; rather we
speak the truth in order to bring conviction of sin that might lead to
repentance and salvation. We must be ruled by and model true godly love that
might not look like the idea of love held by much of society, but it is a
higher and deeper love with the power to transform lives.